Wrestling with yourself I remember when I started to redress the balance after coming out the back of my hysterectomy. It wasn’t an entirely comfortable experience. The people pleaser in…

Self-care and the blissed out you It’s World Mental Health Day today, as recognised by the World Health Organisation, which really underlies the importance of our mental health doesn’t it?…

Saying goodbye to the illusion of control I love this picture – it speaks to me of release and freedom. There’s no-one around (except the photographer) to interfere with the…

Back off Nobby It’s been a couple of weeks now, since I left the day job and started working for myself. This decision wasn’t taken lightly, I can tell you.…

Forgiveness, is more than three strikes For a long time I wrestled with what to write on this blog. Forgiveness has never been a strength for me. I’ve never been…

Bye #WorldChildlessWeek, hello next steps What a week! I had my backstory out there on someone else’s website for everyone to see, along with my letter to my unborn child,…

World Childless Week - an emotional but necessary journey Wow! What a moment. To have had my story published out in the public domain away from my own website. It…

#WorldChildlessWeek World Childless Week is finally here! I’ve been looking forward to this week for ages! It’s a week all about those of us that have been unable to have…

Using your dark side...Luke ‘Never. I’ll never turn to the dark side’ – eugh! Luke Skywalker was always a bit of a goody-goody wasn’t he (well in the original Star…

Hello Grief, my old friend... This week has been tough. Don't get me wrong, most weeks when you're struggling with something like not being able to have the children is…